To Infinity And Beyond:)

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You’re single because you’re single. It’s not because you texted too much or too little or waited 33 minutes to respond because he took 23. It’s not because you met up with your ex that night at 5 a.m. that no one knows about, or because you kissed another boy after a date with a loser.

You’re not single because you spit food on that date or tripped coming out the the movie theatre. You’re not single because you hurt your first boyfriend really badly when you were 15 or because you have yet, to this day, to apologize. It’s not because you were secretly jealous when your friend got a boyfriend or that a guy you dated for two months now has a really cute girlfriend and looks really happy. And you’re happy for him. But still ill that he found someone before you.

You’re not single because you slept with your ex boyfriend. You’re not single because half the world found out when you didn’t even want to remember it yourself. You’re not single because you think the guy your friend wants to hook you up with is ugly or not tall enough. It’s not because you’re not willing to put up with someone who doesn’t brush their teeth on a regular basis.

You’re not single because your standards are too high. Good for you for having standards. It’s not because you didn’t like that really, really good guy who wanted to take you on a date and you just weren’t feeling it. And it’s not because you like to wear pajama pants as soon as you get home and wash all the makeup off your face. You’re not single because you didn’t learn enough from the past or would rather chill on a Friday night with your blanket and a cold beer than shower, get ready, and go out. You’re not single because something is wrong with you.

You are single because you are single. It’s really as simple as that. You haven’t made the connection with another heart yet. You can get dolled up, dress cute, cut your hair, dye your hair, tweeze your eyebrows, put on lipstick and you may still. be. single. You can go out to a bar hoping to meet the love of your life and not find a damn one in the place attractive. And it’s going to remain that way until it’s time for you to find one. Stop hoping for it. Start living the life that you do have instead of wishing for things that you don’t have. There will come a time you’ll meet a boy and you’ll have to give up some of this single freedom you currently have. Start being more thankful. Start doing that now.

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Posted January 25th | 116651 notes | Reblog | Like

I’m going through my down hill right now, it’s hard to deal with it specialy when you have people around you that think youre happy and that the problems you have are not a bid deal. I never really get people involved with my situation, I have friends but they barely know when im not doing well; I think it’s time to get away from people and get closer to God cause his the only one that knows everything and the only one that can comfort me like my grandma does I wish I could see her more often I hate distance!… its not a good start of the year so far:(

Posted January 21st | 0 notes | Reblog | Like

im feeling sad again and the worst thing is that my babe cant be here for me… oh i miss you so much aidan :’( “cant wait for that day”

Posted January 14th | 0 notes | Reblog | Like

"I want a new best friend… I want a best friend like the one from my childhood."

Posted October 22nd | 0 notes | Reblog | Like

i hate some people…

I hate it when people bully! because they want to feel better of themselves. My classmates were making fun of our new classmate for stupid reasons like for his looks and because he looks different, really I wanted to punch the guy that started everythinng hard. It breaks my heart to see that, it’s wrong and that guy doesn’t deserve it -___- if they make fun of him again im gonna do something I would hate myself if I didn’t. People need to respect, just because you think you’re better than someone it doesn’t mean you need to make fun of them. 

Posted October 17th | 1 notes | Reblog | Like